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X Dating Club makes it easy to get results! Check out these answers to frequently asked questions from new users about your profile and using the X Dating Club site.


What's in my profile?

Everything you want potential dates to see, such as your personal ad and photos. It's like your dating shop window.

To edit your profile, click on "Profile" in the "My Account" navigation bar at the top of any page when you're logged in. You can add or edit the information displayed on your profile, including:
  • "Personal Info": contains the most crucial information about you (your personal ad, details about you, birthday, age, location, etc.).
  • "Appearance": contains vital data about your features, from height and body type to hair color.
  • "Social Habits": helps to fill in the details about your lifestyle, such as your level of tastes, hobbies, education, occupation, and marital status.
  • "Cupid": is your automatic matching system that helps you meet the right people.

How do I update my profile?

To update your profile:
  1. Log into the site using your email and password.
  2. click on "Profile" in the "My Account" navigation bar at the top of any page.
  3. There are four links in the Profile section that you can use to update your profile: "Personal Info", "Appearance", "Social Habits", and "Cupid".
    • "Personal Info": contains the most crucial information about you (your personal ad, details about you, birthday, age, location, etc.).
    • "Appearance": contains vital data about your features, from height and body type to hair color.
    • "Social Habits": helps to fill in the details about your lifestyle, such as your level of tastes, hobbies, education, occupation, and marital status.
    • "Cupid": is your automatic matching system that helps you meet the right people.
Note: All profiles and photos are subject to our approval process and may take anywhere between 24-72 hours to review.


What are some tips to remember when creating my profile?

The number of replies you get from other members will depend greatly on the quality of your profile. Here are some helpful tips:

Upload a photograph: People like to see who they're writing to: profiles with photographs get up to 20 times more clicks as profiles without them. See your "Photos" section for details.

Think before you write: Feel free to write as much as you want in your personal ad. Tell other members about yourself: your likes and dislikes, things you enjoy doing, what line of work you're in, what your personality is like, even your hopes and dreams. The better your profile describes you, the more likely it is that others will read and respond to it. If you can't think of anything right away, you can always add more later. This will also help other members get to know you even better.


How do I upload photos to my profile?

Adding a photo to your profile is an excellent idea that will TRIPLE the number of responses you get from other members. To upload a photo, please follow these steps:
  1. Click on the "Photos" link on your "My Account" link.
  2. Click on "Browse" and select the file you want to upload.
  3. Click "Upload my Photo".
Please make sure your photo that you upload is in agreement with our "Terms of Use". Ideal photo criteria would be the following:
  • Must be in Png or Jpg (jpeg) format
  • No larger than 3 MB in filesize
  • Not a copyrighted photo or image
For more photo requirements and criteria, please click here.

You can delete an uploaded photo just by clicking on the "Edit" photo button and selecting "Delete".

Note: All photos are subject to our approval process and may take anywhere between 24-72 hours to review.


What should I write in my personal ad?

This is your chance to tell people why they should date you. Think like an advertiser, and be positive about yourself.

Whatever you write takes prime position in your profile.

Your ad can be anything from 50 characters to 3,000 characters long (around 10 to 500 words). Some geniuses can sell themselves brilliantly in 10 words, but most of us can't, so offer a bit more detail. ibe your character, write about To create your ad, go to your "Profile" page and type your ad in the section headed "In my own words".


Why wasn't my personal ad accepted?

Something in it may have received the thumbs down from our moderators.

Here's how to avoid having bits chopped out of your ad:
  1. Be nice. No offensive stuff, please.
  2. Don't include personal info. If you try to squeeze your email address or phone number into your ad, it won't last long!
  3. Sell yourself, not your business. That's just spam.

Can I delete my ad?

Yes, you simply resubmit it as a blank page. Go to your "Profile", delete everything in the text window and click "Save Changes".

This removes the ad from the website.


How do I make my photos private?

X Dating Club offers private photos to ensure that only those you choose and approve can view your pics. If your photos are private, other members will only see a generic image as your photo icon. You can choose to invite or accept "friend requests" from other members, and only "friends" (members in your Friend List) are able to see your photos.

To set private your photo, go to your "Photos" page, select a photo and click on the "Set Private" button.


How do I view private photos?

Private photos are for those members who wish to remain anonymous online, preferring only to reveal themselves to those they choose. If a person with a private photo sends you a Friend Request, it means that they're interested in you and inviting you to see their private photos. When you accept a Friend Request from another member to see their private photos; this also adds that member to your "Friend List", and allows you to find them quickly and easily when you want to reconnect.

Private photos show only a generic image as its icon. You can control who sees your private photos by inviting or adding people via a Friend Request.


Can I delete one of my photos?

You can remove it by going to your "Photos" page, selecting the thumbnail of the photo you want to delete, then when it appears in the big photo frame, click the "Delete" button.


Why has my photo disappeared from my profile?

Our moderators double check and scan for any content that may have got through the first time, but should have been given the thumbs down. If they find any, they'll delete it immediately.

Your photo may have been denied for one of the following reasons:
  • Inappropriate imagery.
  • Included children in the photo.
  • Included animals in the photo.
  • Photo had more than one person in the photo (for non-couple accounts only)
  • Photoshopped or doctored photos.
  • Included cartoons or anime.
  • Copyrighted photo/image.
Adding a photo to your profile is an excellent idea and will TRIPLE the number of responses you get from other members! Below are a few rules about posting photos.

Your Photos May Be:
  • Erotic Photos - Because we have an adult audience, you're allowed to submit nude or other sexually explicit photographs of yourself. Photos that include sex toys are also acceptable.
  • Two People - Your photo may include two people ONLY if the profile is registered to a couple, and the two people in the photo are that couple.
  • Studio / Portrait Photos - These include photos from Glamour Shots, Headshots and other similar portrait services. This does NOT include magazine photos or other photos that may be copyrighted by the photographer.
  • Driver's License or VISA / Passport Photos - As long as no information such as your name or address is shown, feel free to use these photos.
  • Candid Photos - Here at X Dating Club, clothing is optional. So, if you prefer to upload a candid, every day photo of yourself please don't hesitate. Even if you're just looking for a sexual partner, you don't necessarily need a sexy photo. It's up to you!
Your Photos May NOT Be:
  • Absolutely NO children or animals in the photo.
  • Old photos - Please be sure that your photos are current. We stress that our members be honest, including providing an up to date photo. Baby pictures and other photos that are obviously out of date will be deleted.
  • Photoshop Altered Photos - While Photoshop type programs give you a lot of fun tools to use, please keep it to a minimum. Light decoration is fine, but your real email address and other personal information are not allowed. Some writing may be added to the photo, but approval is subject to our strict discretion.
  • No anime or cartoons of any kind - Whether it's moving or still, cartoons and anime are not photos of you! It's that simple.
  • Only one photo per window - You're allowed to upload a maximum of 100 photos, just on separate pages. Please don't try to cram more than one photo on a page. It may cause problems with your profile listing.
  • No collages - Yes, it's difficult to decide just which photo to use, but please post one per page, 100 maximum, on the site. Thanks!
  • Finally, no inappropriate hand gestures. It's just rude.

Are profiles censored? Is there any limit to what I can put in my profile?

All member profiles must be reviewed and approved when they are originally created as well as when they are modified. Member profiles must abide by our Terms of Use, which are available for review from the Terms of Use link on the footer in our site pages.

We reserve the right to refuse any profile or photograph that we feel is inappropriate for the site its posted to. Also, we ask that you do not put any personal information in your profile, including but not limited to: your home address, a personal beeper, cell or telephone number, a "real" email address or personal web address. Any repeat offenders of this rule will be banned from using the sites until such information is removed from their profile. Because this is a violation of our Terms of Use, repeat offenses may result in the termination of your accounts without warning or refunds.


How do I temporarily turn my listing off?

To "turn off" your profile so that other members cannot see it, log into the site with your email and password. Then go to the "Privacy Settings" link of your "My Account" page and select "Hide my Profile". Once your account has been hidden, your profile will no longer appear on the site and you'll stop receiving your regular email alerts, but your full profile will be saved and you'll be able to reactivate it whenever you like.

Please note that hiding your account does not automatically cancel the automatic renewal of your subscription. If you plan to keep your account hidden for an extended period of time and you have an active subscription, you should first make sure that automatic renewal is cancelled.


Does your account have the wrong gender status?

Members are not allowed to change gender status by themselves. If you have a compelling reason to change your gender status (like you made a mistake when registering), please contact our Customer Service. After reviewing your request, they will make any changes / updates that need to be made.


How long does it take to have my profile / photo approved?

Profiles and photos are all subject to our approval process and may take anywhere between 24-72 hours to review. Any photos or profiles that do not adhere to our Terms of Use or are deemed unacceptable will be denied.


Why am I not listed in Search and Browse? How can I update my location?

In order to be correctly listed in the Search and Browse sections, your profile location must be updated with the correct information. The most common reason for not being listed in the Search and Browse sections is having an incorrect city or state for the "Location" section of your profile. To update your location information:
  1. Log into the site using your email and password.
  2. Click on "Profile" in the "My Account" navigation bar at the top of any page.
  3. Select the appropriate country and state.
  4. Check and / or revise your entry for city.
  5. Click on the "Save Changes" button at the bottom of the page to update your location.
After making this change to your profile, it may take up to 24 hours for you to be added to search and browse.


Why was my profile denied?

If your profile was denied, it was most likely denied for one or more of the following reasons:
  • Containing personal contact information.
  • Having repetitive or invalid content.
  • Including banned or inappropriate topics.
  • The account username is inappropriate for the site.
  • The language used is not supported by the site.