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X Dating Club makes it easy to get results! Check out these answers to frequently asked questions from new users about your profile and using the X Dating Club site.


How do I view someone's profile?

Click on their thumbnail photo or username. You'll be taken to their main profile page, where you can see their basic info and read their personal ad (if they've written one). A green link below their photo means they're currently online.

If your first impressions are good, explore their profile further by scrolling through the different sections:
  • "His / Her profile" gives you their basic info
  • "More About Him / Her" tells you more about their views, beliefs and interests.
  • "What he / she is looking for" will let you find out if you're what they're looking for!

What are "Kisses" and how do I use them?

A "kiss" is a teaser. It's not an email message. If you send a kiss, it just lets the other member know that you find them attractive. Members are notified of their mailbox.

You can send kisses to members clicking on "Send a Kiss" when viewing their profile.


What should I do if someone kiss me?

If you get an email alert saying that someone's kissed you, it means that they like your profile but they're too shy or busy to send a message.

Look at their profile and, if you like what you see, kiss back (click "Send a Kiss" below their photo) or write a message.

If you don't like their profile, ignore the kiss. You're not obliged to return it.


How will I know when someone kiss me?

We'll send you an email alert if you're not logged on. Email alerts are switched on by default, but you can opt out. Just go to "Notification Settings" and click on the "Disable Email Notifications" button.


How do I use the Instant Messenger?

"IM" is the same as any instant message service, except in this case you are only messaging people who are currently logged into the site. To use the IM, you can click "Launch Instant Messenger" or "IM" buttons. If this member accepts your invitation, a private chat window will open.

In order to ignore another member while using your Instant Messenger, you will need to click on the "Ignore" button when they page you. This "ignore" lasts until you close out the Instant Messenger. Once you open the Instant Messenger again, the block will be removed and this member will be able to page you again.


How do I contact members?

Click on the "Send Message" link below someone's photo to write them a message. If you've already received a message from them, just click "Reply" to write back.


How do I search for other members?

  • Log into X Dating Club and enter your email and password.
  • Click the "Search" link in the navigation bar.
  • You can search for a member's handle (or "username"), or you can use the form available to search by criteria you selected.
  • Click the "Search Now" button.

How do I find members that interest me?

There are many ways to find members that interest you. You can use your "Cupid", your "Matches", your "Who's Viewed Me" page, and the search and browse pages to name only a few.

Browse is a "general" function that lets you check out other members by relationship, state or country while searching allows you to "target" very specific locations or ages, even things like last visit date. The most powerful searches are available to Premium members.


How will I know when someone looks at my profile?

We'll send you an email alert if you're not logged on. Email alerts are switched on by default, but you can opt out. Just go to "Notification Settings" and click on the "Disable Email Notifications" button.


What's "Perfect Match"?

The first step to finding your ideal partner is to decide what (and who) you're looking for. Here's our five-step guide to building your picture of perfection:
  1. Go to your "Cupid" page
  2. Click the boxes in the drop-down menus to tell us whether your ideal match in a particular field and so on.
  3. Choose as few or as many preferences in each menu as you like. If you have no preference, leave that menu empty.
  4. You can be as specific as you like, but try not to be too narrow. The people you fall for aren't always the same “type”.
  5. Click the "Save and show my Matches" button to update and view your preferences. You can come back and change them any time you like.
Once you've described who you'd like to meet, you can...
  • Do a search for your best matches. On the "Search" page, select "My Matches" from the menu on the left.
  • Find out which of your perfect matches also describes you as their perfect match.
  • Receive our regular email of your best matches. You can opt out of this email my clicking "Notification Settings".



How do I find my best matches?

Once you've described who you'd like to meet, you can...
  • Do a search for your best matches. On the "Search" page, select "My Matches" from the menu on the left.
  • Find out which of your perfect matches also describes you as their perfect match.
  • Receive our regular email of your best matches. You can opt out of this email my clicking "Notification Settings".



Can I do a more specific search?

If the quick search tools give you too many results and you'd rather narrow things down, use the advanced search table. Go to the "Search" page and fill in as much or as little as you like. The options include:
  • Basics such as age, location and whether they've been married.
  • Physical characteristics such as height and what they consider to be their most attractive feature.
  • Personality traits such as their tastes and habits.
  • How they like to spend their spare time.
  • Whether their profile includes photos and / or a personal ad.

Can I see who's online at the same time as me?

Yes, click the "Online Now" button to see a big list.


Can I search within the list of people currently online?

Yes. After you click "Online Now", filter your criteria in the box on the right.